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“So, I recently started talking to this new girl (it's only been two months). We are not official and I don't think that we will make it official till college starts back in the fall. Since it is summer, she has gone home to another state.. I recently went to go visit her and had an amazing time :) I left the day before my bday and come to find out that when she took my luggage to her car before I left she place a little blue box in there with a nice piece of jewelry inside of it. I was completely blown away and didn't expect it. Her bday is in Aug and I wanted to go and see her, however I can't because of work. BUT! I can go up there a couple weeks before, I want to surprise her. She said that she would love to see me again before school but doesn't want me to waste my money. I don't look at it as a waste.. PLEASE HELP. I don't know what to do, but I want to see her happy and I think it would be awesome to be able to do this for her. Comments, concerns??”

-Question submitted by Anonymous

Dannielle Says:

If she wants to see you, and you can afford the time/money/effort to see her. You should absolutely do it. One time I was living in Chicago and dating someone thousands of miles away, I left at midnight one night, got there around 2pm, was tired as fuck and had to leave the next day around 1pm. It was awesome. I was tired and boring and we didn’t even do it or anything, but it was still totally worth it.

Love is love is love, you guys. When you’re at the stage in your relationship where you want to do a ton of dumb shit just to be next to that person, do it. Absolutely do it. Go crazy, love is such a cool and wonderful thing, you have to take advantage of your insane feelings.

Let yourself feel and do every single dumb thing that comes to mind.

Kristin Says:

I am always uber-careful about surprises because you want to make sure that the person will be thrilled and beside themselves upon your arrival…but since she left a tiny blue box inside of your luggage before you left, I am going to say OH MAN THAT IS SO CUTE AND SHE WOULD DIE IF YOU SURPRISED HER AND YOU WILL KISS AND SPOON AND LAUGH AND ALL WILL BE RIGHT WITH THE WORLD.  Except that whole oil spill thing.  But still.  You totally need to surprise her…

We should expand this blog to include things like video reactions to surprises that we encourage. I love surprisessssss.

Oh, and it is not a waste of money.  I am the queen of surprising those I love when they are far away, and I can tell you from my experience, it is always worth the money.  Love is greater than money, no exceptions.  That being said, I would still like a pony.

PS: For all of you who have girlfriends in other states, calm down.  CALM DOWN.  This is probably not a message from your girlfriend, and you will probably not be surprised in August.


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